How to deal with—and work with—your work enemies

Harmony Internal - McKinsey

Focus on your goals ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌   ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌   ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌   ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌   ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌   ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌   ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌   ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌   ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ 

  Edited by Katherine Tam
  Digital Editor, New York

Conflicts at work are relatively common but dealing with a difficult colleague day in and day out is stressful and takes up lot of energy. How can we best handle these negative interactions and create more positive relationships in the workplace? According to Amy Gallo of Harvard Business Review and the Women at Work podcast, there are eight archetypes of some of the most difficult people we deal with at work—the insecure boss, the pessimist, the victim, the passive-aggressive peer, the know-it-all, the tormentor, the biased coworker, and the political operator. In a new Author Talks interview, she explains that approaching these personalities with empathy, compassion, and kindness can often turn potential enemies into allies. Give it a read and see what she has to say. And for more insights on cultivating empathy and compassion in leadership, check out this article by McKinsey senior partner Gemma D’Auria and her coauthors.

Quote

Quote of the day

—Tyler Cowen of George Mason University on how talent can develop over time in a recent episode of McKinsey Global Institute’s Forward Thinking podcast

Chart of the day

ALSO NEW

McKinsey & Company

Follow our thinking

LinkedIn Facebook Facebook

Share these insights

Did you enjoy this newsletter? Forward it to colleagues and friends so they can subscribe too. Was this issue forwarded to you? Sign up for it and sample our 40+ other free email subscriptions here.

This email contains information about McKinsey's research, insights, services, or events. By opening our emails or clicking on links, you agree to our use of cookies and web tracking technology. For more information on how we use and protect your information, please review our privacy policy.

You received this email because you subscribed to the Daily Read newsletter.

Manage subscriptions | Unsubscribe

Copyright © 2022 | McKinsey & Company, 3 World Trade Center, 175 Greenwich Street, New York, NY 10007


by "McKinsey Daily Read" <publishing@email.mckinsey.com> - 06:40 - 5 Oct 2022